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Date: 06/12/2012
By: Kate Jessop (worked with your sister years ago!!)
Subject: Inspirational
Jezza, its been a long time since I saw you, probably Rach and Adys wedding! When I heard about your blog I knew I had to read it, and im so glad I did, you are an inspirational man.
I work in the Queens Centre of Oncology and Haematology in Hull, the regions best cancer centre as a Staff Nurse, I see people throughout varying stages of the awful disease which is cancer, and no matter what knowledge I have on cancer, drugs and dying, I dont know how it feels to have it happen to me, to feel the pain, surgery, treatments.
Some patients like to hear the raw, harsh truth, they share stories with the patient in the opposite bed despite that person is a different age,have a different diagnosis, different treatment plan yet they like to know they are not alone.
You my friend are what cancer patients need, your the breathe of fresh air thats on their side, you know how they feel and have the stories that cancer has been a part of. Keep up writing, continue getting stronger, be patient - your body is an amazing healer, but like a fine wine it takes a little while longer to get good!, and never ever change!!
I will tell my patients to read your blog, tell my collegues to read it too and share it far and wide.
Keep Smiling Jezza
Big Hugs
Kate x
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Date: 07/12/2012
By: rachie
Subject: Re: Inspirational
Brilliant Kate, as are you and what you do x x x
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Date: 07/12/2012
By: Kate
Subject: Re: Re: Inspirational
Thanks Rach, I try my hardest! lots of love xxx
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Date: 01/12/2012
By: Sue Perry
Subject: Getting it
I'm ashamed to say that I've only just started reading this. I'm glad for this slow Saturday morning where I have time to catch up. The reflection of your mind in your words is beautiful. My Grandad is going for an operation to remove a cancer in his colon on Monday. I'm going to channel your strength to him through my mind box. Much love big boss man x
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Date: 25/11/2012
By: helen
Subject: is the world ready??
Not just one but two! Bloody hell Jez! Congratulations! Best of luck to you and Fi, hope the babies get her looks. Now you really are Big Daddy Jezza.
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Date: 25/11/2012
By: Thais
Subject: An overdue note
Well, for the past 3 weeks you've been on my mind rather a lot. Adam and I have been reading you're blog nearly every day. If one of us missed it the other one would make sure we did, "have you read Jez's blog today", "no, is everything ok?" and there we go, off to read your piece of mind. I got so into it that I ended up feeling a little bit like you do, on top of the world, dissapointed or even low. I know nothing compares to what you really feel like but just wanted you to know that I share your pain, your highs and lows.
You have been an inspiration for the past 3 weeks but words have failed me to give you some written support.
Today, after a night out and 3 glasses of wine, which is very rare for me, I woke up later than normal, rather tired and spaced out because I had been "drinking" and I didn't go to bed at my usual bedtime, that is not much later than the girls bedtime! Yes, I know, it's ridiculous but that's my life now. I am lucky if it's 10 o'clock and still awake, otherwise you can find me passed out on the sofa in a very deep sleep.
Anyway, as I was saying, whilst having my morning coffee I logged in to facebook only to find out about your great news. I, seriously, nearly choke and let out a loud WTF followed by a OMG. Right, this is the weird bit, I cannot described how good I felt, how happy I am for you, I even shed a tear, ok, maybe two. I can't stop thinking about it and how much this would motivate you towards your recovery. This is just what you needed, something that big to focus on. And you two deserve it and can't help but saying, about bloody time guys!!!! I still remember that day that we met for a coffee in Cribbs, how Lara warmed to you instantly and me thinking you'll make a great dad one day. Well, this is it, you are going to be Big Daddy Jezza and what can I say about Fifi, one of Adam's oldest and greatest friends who became my friend as well very quickly. One of the first people I've met even before I moved to the UK.
This is big man!! I feel soooo uplifted, over the moon!!!
There's an idea, you should write a book about your story, it is so inspirational!! There, I said it!!
I thought it was about time to write something on your blog so there you go! This comes from my heart, not really thinking what I am writing just how I feel. Sorry if it doesn't make any sense at times, just remember english is not my mother tongue!!
Big love xxx
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Date: 16/11/2012
By: Tony
Subject: The Right Stuff
Jez,
Your amazing story continues. I wanted to say "journey", but refuse to employ X Factor Judge vocabulary.
The blog, is honest, direct and compelling, which is exactly what I would expect from you. I vividly remember visiting you in hospital after the first op. and being amazed at your physical and mental resilience - nothing has chnged in those respects.
Seriously though, when are you going to stop sodding about and buy me that drink you promised 6 months ago?
"Success is not final. Failure is not fatal. It is the courage to continue that counts".
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Date: 12/11/2012
By: Stew
Subject: Good luck
Jezza
Thinking of you mate and hope all goes well
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Date: 10/11/2012
By: cazzy b
Subject: wowcha!!!
hi jezza.,
just wanted to say you are an inspiratipn to all and i hope some day that many people find all of your thoughts and tribulations of some comfort if they ever have to go through this.
loving the blogs and u never fail to make me smile.
proud to be in your circle of friends and hope you heal as quick as you can so you come bust some moves in the shire soon
all love and respect
cazzy b
xxxx
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Date: 08/11/2012
By: langers
Subject: miss you!
Every sentence that you have written in this blog as been incredible! You're not only a credit to yourself but also to the millions of people that have been touched by cancer.
You're skill in writing is one the best I have seen in such a long time! I'm so proud of you Jezza!!
Anyway, work is crap without you! We all miss you so much! Bev is lovely, but she doesn't have the same presence as you! No crazy jackets to laugh about, and no huge smiles either! Back on world vision uplift Friday, can't help but laugh when I think of my offer to sit under your desk for the same money!
You jez, are a legend!
Rest up, be good, keep safe and smile :)
Big love,
Langers xx
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Date: 07/11/2012
By: Little Sis
Subject: you're home !
So so glad you're home, don't push the recovery too hard though you impatient Buggar you have to be completely invincible!
however do wean off the devil that is Tramdol...if you revert to co-codomol don't forget laxo's ha ha
Skin graft sounds vile where the sponge is but makes sense once its explained!
Anyway rest up, chill out, watch jezza Kyle feel better about things instantly ha ha x x
See you soon x x
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Date: 05/11/2012
By: Big Moma
Subject: No 1 son
I am so pleased you are on the mend, cannot keep a good man down (they tried with anaesthetic !).
This is a big step technically for me but thought I should try.
Not as witty as your pals but that's just me.
Keep up the good work
xxxx
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Date: 05/11/2012
By: Noddi
Subject: Lucky bugger
Hiya Jezza
Loving you blog its a really good insight into what your going through, keep it coming. Don't forget there are always worse off, if you were here there is no way you would be getting that treatment (if fact you'd be under by now), so your really lucky!!!
Big hugs
Noddi
xxx
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Date: 05/11/2012
By: Rina
Subject: Amazing
Jez, you have faced this big op with such courage it's truly amazing and we are all very proud of you. Your positive attitude shines through all the time and because of this and your fighting spirit you have done it! You are on top now.
Hugs and love RinaXXX
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Date: 03/11/2012
By: Lisa (Telegen)
Subject: Speedy recovery
Hey jezza
Been reading your blog! So amazingly brave! Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and think you are a real inspiration. Get well soon kid! Lots of love xxxxx
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Date: 03/11/2012
By: Adriaan
Subject: Wow
Mate, had I not known you know you're a mentalist, I'd say you mentalist! Truly inspirational stuff here and we deffo need more people in this world with a set of jewels. People, even I, have good old moan about a cold or flu.. This just puts all that in perspective. We all know you're way too mental and positive for all of these challenges you have now, so it's just a question of time bud, smash that ops granny in and get back on your feet. The world need you back in the streets.
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Date: 02/11/2012
By: Doug
Subject: Madness!
I've been glued to this and your courage is truely influencial. Keep ya pecker up son! it will over soon!
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Date: 01/11/2012
By: Carolyn and Neville, (Claires mum and dad)!
Subject: Jez
Read your blog today Jez, Claire told me about it - what can I say! Amazing, You came in like a whirlwind, first time we met you, you made us laugh - no really!! You are greatly loved by a lot of people, so you'd better get well quick!!
Sending you special thoughts!!
Love Carolyn and Neville xx
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Date: 29/10/2012
By: Ruth Reid
Subject: Totally 'Thinking of you!'
Jez,
Just wanted to let you know that like so many others we are thinking of you tonight and will be tomorrow.
Loving reading your very honest and open blog, you could be on to a winner with your genius writing skills!
So stay brave for tomorrow and strong through your rehab, and just look forward to what life may behold when you're over this hurdle!x
Love and hugs to you and lovely Fi.
R.xxxx
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Date: 29/10/2012
By: Ben
Subject: Big Love to you!
Hey Jezza
I just read your update & it's emotional stuff. I feel a bit like you as my eyes started to water!
Loving the updates & no doubt it's helpful for you to be writing your thoughts, keeping us all informed & fully supporting you throughout this time.
Reading the messages everyone has written to you is heart warming. You are a very loved man & it's great to know you have such support. I believe love is the most powerful healer & I'm sure the support you have from all of us is going to help your speedy recovery.
I looking forward to the Halloween photo update,
Love you Jezza, see you on the otherside!
Ben
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